Monday, July 23, 2012

please advice me


A Zikites hotspot blog reader (ZHB)
am a 300level psychology student of unizik. i have a fiance whom am about to marry but coincidentally his younger brother is someone i once had a one night stand with before we got to know each other and neva told him of it. whenever i go visiting and see him around i feel unsecured and afraid and he threatens to blackmail me on any request he asks from me. should i let it go or ???

10 comments:

Ckika said...

I beliv in truth n sincerty, tel u fiance

Blessing said...

Ppl av done alot of tinz in d past dey aiint proud of, my dear ur case is not dif

Anonymous said...

Your evil has caught up with you

Anonymous said...

U talk as if u ve neva sinned b4.I knw in lyf,ur mistakes sud be more dan hers.n ur own sins will also catch up wit u

Ugo said...

To every action there is a consequence, my dear gladly bear yours

Koko said...

Its nt fair

Unknown said...

all i think our dear friend needs is an advice, not all the crictisms. no one is exceptional in making mistakes you know.

uzo said...

My dear what wıll be wıll be know amount of threaten frm hıs younger brother wıll make ur destıny change,cuz no body ıs above mıstake.
No body ıs too perfect tanx.

Anonymous said...

My dear plz do tel ur fiance...itz beta he hears it from you than from his brother..If ur fiance never forgives,mayb u 2 wer nt meant 2 be

Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha ppl r so funny. Hello? She asked for advice and not judgement. And all dez ppl judging ha, hve done worse. My dear, I believe u are now a changed person. Cook for him, invite him over, put calm christian song and tell him how much u love him. Tell him dat everyone has a past and u do too. That u are changed and u want to be completely open to him. That u don't want to carry any secret into marriage. That u want to be able to share anything wt him and vice versa. Then u gently tell him what happened. And beg for forgiveness.
If he forgives u, den u will always be happy and NOTHING can brk u too up again.
If he doesn't, den ur marriage was nt meant to be.
NEVER, I repeat, NEVER!!!! Give in to Blackmails. It will only complicate things, I promise u dat.